Okay so I decided to start a Blog just for Girl Talk. This way any questions that my PrimaDonna's and Primmy Pre's ask me, I can anonymously post their question and my answer to help other girls that may be inquiring about the same things. There is a comment section as well that will allow girls and women to respond to the answers and post their own questions. Let's get it started!
Question: I like a guy a lot! So much that I think we're in love, but now he's been talking to me a lot about sex. He even told me that he felt like he was ready to have sex with ME. The problem is that I don't feel that I'm ready to have sex with him or anyone else. I'm afraid that if I tell him No and say I’m not ready that he will no longer want to be with me. What should I do?
Answer: Okay, in this situation lady, honesty IS the best policy. You need to be direct and honest with him the next time this issue comes up. Tell him how you feel and inform him that you are NOT ready to take that big step. No matter what his response is, you cannot give in. Stay firm and stand your ground. Don't lead him on and make him think that maybe you are going to say yes because that could lead to serious problems. Make sure to tell him that this does not change how you feel about him, but that if he really loves you he will wait...because you are worth waiting for! Good Luck Lady :o)